Getting Started

Shibari literally means “to tie” or “to bind,” but the practice is broader than a one-line definition. Here’s a beginner-friendly guide to shibari, kinbaku, rope bondage, why people practise, and why communication and consent matter.

If you've never tried rope before, it's easy to wonder: "Why would anyone want to be tied up?" The answer is surprisingly simple: there isn't one. People come to rope for many different reasons, and those reasons often change over time. What begins as curiosity may grow into a creative hobby, a way to connect with others, or simply a chance to slow down after a busy week. There is no single "right" motivation, and you don't need an elaborate explanation to be interested in ro

How to negotiate for better rope scenes. What Is Negotiation? A Beginner's Guide to Planning a Rope Session If you're new to rope, you might imagine that the first thing people do is start tying. In reality, one of the most important parts of any rope session happens before the rope even comes out. This conversation is called negotiation. Negotiation is simply a discussion between the people involved to make sure everyone understands what they're hoping for, what they're comf

What event should I attend if I'm brand new? We recommend Fundamentals, our absolute beginner friendly class as your first event. You will be able to meet other new people and learn a little bit of rope to get you started. Fundamentals is run on the First Thursday and the 3rd Saturday every month. You can find all our events here: https://www.thatropeplace.com/upcoming-events We also have movie nights and socials that would be perfect for new people. What happens at a rope ja

If you’ve ever been curious about rope, whether you’ve seen photos online, heard friends talk about it, or simply wondered what it’s like, you’re not alone. For many people, rope can feel mysterious or intimidating at first. The good news is that getting started is much simpler than most people expect. Here are five things that might help if you’re thinking about trying rope for the first time. 1. You Don’t Need Experience Everyone starts somewhere. Most people who walk into