Tied Up Lads

Tied Up Lads is a casual, male-focused rope session for men to gather, practice, and explore Shibari. The event emphasizes safety, consent, and inclusivity, creating a space where participants can be both present and playful without pressure.

The jam is not an instructional class, though facilitators will be available for light guidance, check-ins, and support. Participants are free to explore at their own pace and engage with others as they feel comfortable. 

This event welcomes all men and male-identifying participants, including trans men and non-binary individuals who are comfortable in a male focused space. This session is designed to be affirming, respectful and mindful of diverse identities and experience.

Objectives:

• Provide a safe, male-only environment for practicing rope.

• Encourage men to explore emotional presence, vulnerability, and trust through rope.

• Create a supportive space for men who may feel less comfortable expressing themselves in mixed-gender rope settings.

• Foster a culture of clear communication, consent, and mindful interaction.

• Offer participants the chance to experience rope as both a physical and emotional medium for connection.

Format:

Open rope jam with light facilitation, consent check-ins, and optional partner matching.

Facilities:

• 12 rigging points

• Ample floor space

• Comfortable mats and seating

• Toilets nearby for changing

• Drinks available for purchase; participants may bring their own food or beverages for aftercare.

Play Guidelines:

• Consent is paramount: communicate openly, check in frequently, and respect all boundaries.

• No messy play (e.g., paint, wax, or fluids).

• Nudity is not encouraged; dress down to your comfort level.

• Alcohol and recreational drugs are not permitted; sober participation is expected.

What to Bring:

• Your own ropes (limited house ropes available)

• Comfortable clothing suitable for movement and tying

• Water bottle and small towel

• An open mind, curiosity, and respectful attitude

Safety and Wellbeing:

• Quiet spaces will be available for participants who need rest or emotional pause.

• Facilitators are trained to notice signs of distress, offer guidance, and maintain a safe environment.

• Participants are encouraged to communicate their limits clearly, check in frequently with partners, and prioritize mutual care.

• The atmosphere emphasizes mindfulness, patience, and shared responsibility for safety.