Tied By Her

Held in her hands. Defined on her terms.

Pricing

In 2023 the unadjusted gender pay gap in Singapore was 14.3% and we've decided to adjust our pricing to reflect this. All of our other weekend jams are $30, this one is $25.71 per person.

About the Event

Tied By Her is a women-centered rope jam to gather, practice, and explore Shibari together.

Tied By Her is a relaxed rope space that empowers women and encourages confidence in exploring rope within a wider community network. This event centers women’s experiences, perspectives, and ways of engaging with rope, offering a different focus from typical rope spaces. Whether you’re new or experienced, this is a space to explore, learn, and connect without pressure.

Mission

• To encourage more women to enter rope, especially as riggers/tops

• To create a women-centered space that centers women’s experiences while fostering comfort, confidence, and ease of exploration

• To support women in not just participating in rope—but leading and shaping it

Who Can Attend

Our space welcomes:

• Women (cis and trans)

• Non-binary and gender-diverse individuals who feel aligned with a women-centered space

• All experience levels are welcome.

• Male participants are not general attendees.

For certain Tied By Her events, a limited number of strictly male bottoms may be permitted, depending on the event format. Male bottoms are subjected to prior vetting and are by invite only. These details will be clearly indicated in advance, so keep a lookout. If you are unsure whether this space is right for you, do feel free to reach out.

Event Format

Self-directed practice: The space is open for you to explore rope in a way that feels comfortable—tying, being tied, self-tying, or observing.

First 30mins: Introduction & Rope Discussion

We begin with:

• A short self-introduction

• An open rope discussion with 1–2 prompts

Sample discussion topics may include:

• Experiences navigating rope spaces as a woman

• Barriers to topping/rigging and building confidence

• Safety, trust, and communication in rope

• Body image, gaze, and comfort in rope

• What makes a rope experience feel empowering to you

While participation is optional, attendees are encouraged to submit questions or topics in advance to help shape discussions.

Light Guidance Available

Facilitators will be around to:

• Offer beginner-friendly support to those new to Shibari

• Help with basic ties and safety

• Support those exploring topping for the first time

Play Guidelines

Safety is paramount

Dress to your comfort level

Respect the intention of the space