Tied By Her

Held in her hands. Defined on her terms.

About the Event

Tied By Her is a women-centered rope jam to gather, practise, and explore shibari together. It centers women’s experiences and ways of engaging with rope, offering a different focus from typical rope spaces. Whether you’re new or experienced, it is a relaxed space to explore, learn, and connect without pressure.

Mission

• To encourage more women to enter rope, especially as riggers/tops

• To create a women-centered space that centers women’s experiences while fostering comfort, confidence, and ease of exploration

• To support women in not just participating in rope—but leading and shaping it

Who Can Attend

Tied By Her is a women-centered rope space intended for female-identifying individuals.

This space is open to:

• Women (cis and trans)

• Non-binary and gender-diverse individuals who feel aligned with a women-centered space and its intention

This is a women-only space. Male attendees are not permitted.

We reserve the right to decline entry or ask individuals to leave if we feel they do not align with or uphold the safety, intention, and ethos of the space. If you are unsure whether this space is right for you, please feel free to reach out.

Event Format

Event format may shift between events with the core aim being to support women in building skills, confidence, and autonomy in rope within a supportive environment. 

First 30mins: Introduction & Rope Discussion

We begin with:

• A short self-introduction

• An open rope discussion with 1–2 prompts

Self-directed practice

The space is open for you to explore rope in a way that feels comfortable—tying, being tied, self-tying, or observing. 

Light Guidance Available

Facilitators will be around to:

• Offer beginner-friendly support to those new to Shibari

• Help with basic ties and safety

• Support those exploring topping for the first time

Play Guidelines

• Safety is paramount

• Dress to your comfort level

• Respect the intention of the space